Wise and adult learning from child

If you look to the structure of the teaching of faith, patience is equated with gratitude to God. When we live in a state of positive then we are commanded to enable gratitude to God, in a sense led to the idea positively, running positive action, positive way, to achieve positive goals. But, turn to a negative situation, then the patience to be enabled. But here a different definition of patience with pathetic patience and fatalistic, just wait without doing anything - and this is equivalent to throwing the responsibility on others. Patience in this definition, is the patience in the context of mental toughness are realized in our diligence as a parent to proceed. That is, learn to recognize and correct our weaknesses of the relationship with the child. Actually we can see very clearly, that there are some similarities between the attitudes, character and habits with children in both positive and negative. Including about temper tantrums as an instant solution to obtain wishes.

So actually, the first lesson in patience is not directed to children, but to ourself. If we do not " patience", heard a whining child, see the delinquency of children, see the actions of children who do not support our image, see the way children who are not as sweet as our expectations - it would not be surprised if we wanted to quickly get out of that situation, generally with fatalistic attitude. So we often hear the words "well, what can I do ... he's already born naughty ..." or .. "it’s natural..... he's still small child".... maybe, we are unable to manage the drives of ourself not to smoke, do not watch soap operas at the time the child learns, not gossiping at work, not play the game when the work piled up, no shopping mania for 70% discount.

There are some of us who seemed to be wise since birth. From birth already seen the potential for "patient". Actually, also the product of a process, because the character of their parents and experienced life processes contribute to determine and influence the nature, character, and things that are "innate" child.

But there is also like a banyan tree. To reach maturity soul, that person must collaborate with wind, hot sun, the sting of parasites, or incision knife prankster - all of that process of real life, if used properly and in place, gave birth to the wisdom that flows in the attitude of persevering and loyal - wait to set up and establish the self - before forming another person. Just imagine, if we do not yet have its own shape, still a photo copy of the old pattern, or still in the original format that are not yet up grade - how to shape a child?

Basically, everyone was given the potential to be "patient and wise." About the potential that we use it or not, we are offered to choose. Therefore, be patient orders that are general and absolute, not only addressed to certain people but to every person.