When we bring context to explain how we can be more patient parent and wise, then in general there are several factors that can be said as supporters to get there. A number of that factors may be mentioned here, among others:
- Relation parent / father-mother. The more synergistic relationship that exists between father and mother, both outwardly and inwardly, the greater the potential to give each other support in facing the challenges of a "parent". Many research results reveal that the children often become victims of inharmonious parents. If parents themselves are at loggerheads and value, or a power struggle, or even colonize another one, how can collaborate to educate children?
- Perception of parents. Parents who consider themselves as teachers and rulers of the all of everything in front of children, may be more difficult to learn patience and wiser than the parents who also realize the importance to become "students" who have a willingness to understand and study the behavior of the child to find a solution.
- Mastery of inner atmosphere. Parents who are more mature in controlling stress, it's easier to learn to be more patient than parents who are always reactive to stress or carrying around their stress in the face of a child.
- Mental Maturity. Parents that have more varied life experience, greater soul, their confident is higher, or values that exist in his chest is stronger, it's easier to learn patience.
- Attitude towards family economic circumstances. This understanding is not about rich or poor, but rather on how the attitude of the fluctuations of economic conditions of families in certain moments. A positive attitude will be more supportive to learn more patient than a negative attitude.
- Discourse and values developed in the family. Families that still open talks about the discourse of life that inspires the soul or the values that brighten wisdom, will be easier to learn patience rather than the family that material conversation limited to things that are superficial.
- Family situation and external conditions in general. Families with the people in them one heart, one vision, and one rhythm, would be more supportive to learn patience.
That all are contributing factors. This factor will only actively support if we activate the deciding factor. Who would be the deciding factor here? The determining factor is that we are with all the commitment we have to learn "patience" - involved process and grow to be mature in line with the growth process of our children.
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