Secrets to an Increase in Confidence

Apparently, the problem of confidence crisis became one of the classic problem that is always experienced by some of our youth. In fact, that problem if let it linger could backfire ourselves. Could be, the potential that exists within us precisely constrained because only a problem that need not be a problem. Well, we'll try to review how far the influence of self-esteem affects a person success, and how to overcome the excessive crisis of confidence.

Having self-confidence is important. If we have a high confidence, we can develop the potential that exists within us optimally. No longer need to feel inferior or embarrassed when we have to appear in the public, on any occasion. With confidence, we also can become more clever, because we also dare to lift a hand to ask questions. And we also can be known by many people because we are not feel inferior in the association with others.

Well, what about it, which could cause us to feel inferior or less confidence? Apparently there are many reasons. Here are the causes, so we can avoid a lack of confidence:

1. We like to think negative about ourselves. If you feel ashamed of your physical, believe in your heart that it is God's grace that is certainly have some benefit. Make yourself useful with what you have.

2. Fear of failure that make us cannot move forward. If we always feel afraid of doing something wrong, we will never be successful. So never be afraid of failure. Because, the error is the first step toward success. Great characters in history that make many useful invention for us, was once always make mistakes, but they keep trying to fix their mistake. So, never fear to make mistakes!

3. If we hang out together with a coward, automatically we will also be a coward, because our association will affects our personality. Because we are in an environment that the majority do not have a high sense of confidence, we will be the same like they are. Believe me, we are strongly influenced by the environment in which we reside.

4. We are often influenced by opinions of others, and unfortunately not every opinion is true. Opinions or input from the outside we can just absorb. Our task is to process them, as well as for self-evaluation. Had the opinion made us into retreat or hesitation, just reject it.

In essence, remove far-away the feeling insecure within ourselves, do not look at our lack, correct the mistakes we make, and enrich ourselves with knowledge. Automatically, at least we would have defiled our lack and covered by surplus that we have even a little, the most important is we must have the confidence first. But remember..!!! Do not be redundant, because something that was excessive is not fine. Do not over- confidence! And always positive thinking about ourself!

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