If you've tried something new and fail, I am sure that you are someone who is nice to talk to me compared with those who feel everything is going well or okay.
People like that in my opinion, has never tried anything new. But you are ...... you know someone who is different from where I know? .... Because you visit my blog and read my articles, which means you want to change your life to be better than today. You want to look for something new that you can apply in your life.
You have a passion and I am sure you also have an incredible life experience. Maybe it's a lot of failures that you feel and maybe some of you have come to doubt the extent of your own belief to achieve what you want. Can I? Did I? It seems I can no longer deal with failure. (See also: Do not Let Your Lack of Limiting Yourself to Advanced)
The things below are some points of failure that I want sharingkan to you. I concentrate for 3 days preparing this article, hopefully it can be something useful to you. At least if there are people who greatly assisted with this article, of course, would make me happy because I did not toil in vain
Failure to create new options
Maybe you can not absorb all the lessons you received from your failures, but still, it is a priceless treasure for you. Failure is also a perfect moment in which you reflect on your initial goal, look around and decided the reason why you should never give up.
The best part of a failure is that you will be taken to a street you've never made before.
The new door will open, your relationship with some people may be getting stronger, the opposite might also your relationship with several others to be tenuous because you failed.
Failure to train your patience
If you are a quick emotion, especially when you experience failure, it is a very natural thing. I think most people feel resentment or anger when faced with failure. But the important point is do not harbor resentment or anger you.
The second point is do not try to figure things out as a reason for your failure. Like, I do not have the support of my spouse, is due to me not having enough capital, I do not have private vehicles for mobility, I was born to a family of small-minded, and so on.
Once you make these things as a reason for your failure, then it will be your inner self. You will take the reason that wherever you go so that over time will poison you.
Please vent your emotions, of course within reasonable limits. Maybe you want to take it out with a cry, cry. Maybe you want to take it out by going to the cafe to listen to life music, go to the cafe.
But quite up there. A very bright future still awaits you. Get up and walk again.
Failure is a source of creativity
Anyone who wants a failure? But if you do not ever expect to have failed then your mind is not stimulated to grow. Fail would encourage you to be more creative.
Try to remember back to your childhood. If you forget, you can look at your own child or small children around you. They are never afraid of making mistakes or failures. They do all the things they want to do without thinking the risk. Sometimes they fall, but in a moment they get up and running again. They sometimes find a dead end when making a game but they do not stop, they are trying to find new solutions. As a result, their minds are so creative. We can all imitate their pure mind that has not been contaminated by the surrounding environment.
Failure to optimize your potential
Maybe you have a 'guru' in your life or your boss to careers. I believe that a good teacher or supervisor will direct you to take risks. They have a belief that the conservative mind will not make himself out with optimal potential.
The more often you fail, your brain will be more trained to deal with problems and how to find a way out.
I believe that every person has tremendous potential with the uniqueness of each. You can find out the magnitude of the potential that you have only the courage to face the problem, there is no other way.
You can see also the article of my colleagues: Junior cendol can also Success.
You gain strength by having adversity
Be thankful if you experience failure or misfortune. Due to the failure you're prepared to achieve greater success. You will be forged to be stronger than ever.
I will give a few illustrations:
You know the Chinese bamboo tree? If you include people who can not wait for the growth of a plant, bamboo tree may already be a victim.
Chinese bamboo tree will not be shown considerable growth during the first 6-7 years, may only grow a few tens of centimeters only. But after that time, the Chinese bamboo tree growth can not be dammed, it grows so fast and its size is no longer cm but meters.
Actually, what happened to the Chinese bamboo tree? .... During the first 6-7 years, he was not experiencing growth, we just do not see with the naked eye growth. The focus of chinese bamboo trees growing at the time was at the root, not the trunk. Chinese bamboo tree is preparing a solid foundation so that he could sustain a height of tens of meters.
Imagine what happens if the Chinese bamboo tree does not have strong enough roots to sustain its height? Just a little breeze will make it fall.
If you frequently experience a failure and feel koq far away from your dream of success, it does not mean you are not experiencing growth. Instead you are experiencing tremendous growth in you. You are being beaten and mentally prepared to your success. Similarly, the Chinese bamboo tree.
If you only expect an instant result, whatever it is, your fate will be like a bamboo tree that does not have strong roots. Just a little shake, you'll fall so hard.
So once again thanks to all the misfortunes and failures, you will gain strength from it.
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