The term "puberty" comes from the word "pubes" which means hair that grows around the genitals. This condition is experienced by the child's teen years, both men and women. Second puberty is a condition where there is similarity of behavior such as that experienced by children who enter puberty, such as more attention to appearance, more attention to the opposite sex, and so forth.
Second puberty experienced by men and women who entered the age of 40 years and over. The symptoms in men as he entered the second puberty are:
Reluctant to appear older. They started paying attention to her appearance and beauty of her body. Her hair was dyed a la the young, stylish slang, modifying his car to be flat, and so forth.
They also begin to love again adventure. Starting from the long-distance bike ride, up and out of the discotheque.
Productivity of living increases. Many found that they are increasingly adept at negotiating, the more advanced business, as well as the more spectacular career.
While in women, symptoms are:
Disturbed or cessation of the process of menstruation (menopause). This happens because gonadotrop no longer produced by the gland hypophysc. Effects that occur are dizziness, lethargy, and less passionate. As a result, emotional stability is often disrupted.
Shrink fat deposits so that the skin began to wrinkle, even breasts start changing shape. Graying hair. This situation will affect the mental state. Moreover, if the husband looked at it as a setback.
Each person will experience this second phase of puberty. Because it is necessary to adequate preparation for entering the mature phase of this crisis. This is where back-tested the commitment of marriage. Communication and understanding a very important role for couples who began to enter this second puberty. Different conditions between husbands and wives often trigger conflicts between them. Husband is more excited in many ways, while the wife the more lethargic and less passionate. If there is good communication between couples who enter this period, the second crisis, this problem will be resolved properly.
Some things you can do to get through puberty a second well is:
Banc both undisturbed by the presence of children
Providing such a surprise candle light dinner, buying goods that are desirable partner, and so forth
Reopening memories photo album together
Watching movies alone
Etc.
It is expected that couples entering a second puberty can pass well and happily into old age.
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